The worst possible thing for any of us — no matter what our temptations, no matter what our mortal inclinations may be — is to become fixated with them, to dwell on them. When we do that, not only do we deny the other things that comprise us, but experience teaches that there will be an increased likelihood that eventually we will simply succumb to the inclination.
I found this quote from Elder Wickman while reading a news conference about same-gender attraction. No, I don’t have ANY inclinations in this area, but it is interesting how they talk about temptations in general. To this, I can relate more clearly.
I really like what Elder Wickman says: “The worst possible thing for any of us…is to be fixated with [our temptations], to dwell on them. When we do that, not only do we deny the other things that comprise us, but experience teaches that there will be an increased likelihood that eventually we will simply succumb to the inclination.”
This reminds me of the quote found in the manual about how “the study of the doctrines of the gospel will improve behavior quicker than a study of behavior will improve behavior. Preoccupation with unworthy behavior can lead to unworthy behavior. That is why we stress so forcefully the study of the doctrines of the gospel” (in Conference Report, Oct. 1986, 20; or Ensign, Nov. 1986, 17)
I have a testimony of this fact: as I study the gospel and seek to honestly know God’s will for me via personal prayer, my behavior and temptations are changing. I’m becoming more open to the promptings of the Spirit and I’m having less “inclination to do evil”.
Nate
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